By: Jessica B.
No, I’m not talking about food poisoning. I’m talking more about the service.
For me, going out to eat is a treat. Especially when I want to celebrate good news, a birthday or just to spend a nice evening out with friends, unwinding and catching up.
Which is why it f*cking pisses me off when that dinner is ruined by poor service, bad food, etc.
Yes, I may take this a little personally, but money was really tight when I was growing up so going out to eat was more than just a meal, it was an “experience.” It was something you looked forward to and enjoyed because it didn’t happen all the time.
So Friday night, after a long week at work, I got back to Wisconsin for the weekend and promptly told dad we were going out to dinner. I had not seen him in a few weeks and was looking forward to some quality time together.
Until we go to a
Bar Louie location at home and…well…they ruined my meal.
First, they mess up my initial order, no biggie, I point out the mistake and change my order. Thirty minutes later it arrives, after dad has finished his meal and I’ve eaten most of his fries out of starvation.
Then my new meal arrives, one of my current, favorite dishes, baked mac and cheese, and it’s not even baked. It’s just warm. At this point, I’m starving so I just eat part of it while my dad sits and stares at me.
Oh and apparently there is a water shortage at the restaurant because I only got one glass of water with no refills (despite asking) so I had to share again with dad.
Sure, we complained and got 50 percent off the bill, but I was so mad at myself for choosing that place and that the meal was not what I was hoping for cuisine-wise and service-wise.
This is a perfect example of why I’m a bad tipper. I refuse to reward my waitress who was jiggling her boobs at the bartenders and host staff rather than be attentive. When I have good service, I’m a good tipper, great service, I’m a great tipper.
And the restaurant was barely full so crowd couldn’t even be an excuse.
So now I’m still upset reflecting on this. Geez, I’m either sad or too much of a “feeler.”
So f*ck you Bar Louie, you’re being placed on the “on notice” board. Yes, you’ve prompted me to add something to that board again.
What was your worst dining experience or what irritates you the most when you go out to eat?
Reader note: Oh my gosh! I was so appreciative of everyone’s posts about me jumping into the home ownership pool. Thank you so much for your great comments, I will definitely keep everyone posted on how this goes! And welcome again to new commenters too! You guys are the best :)