Archive for July 2009

24 July 2009

Talkin’ about love

By: Jessica B.
Tagged: Friends, wedding

That’s right, today I’m talking about love. And dishing my thoughts and advice on it. I know, I’m so unqualified for it, but it’s for a good reason.

My Vegas/Chicago/blog buddy Renee is getting marwied (said in Princess Bride tone) in a few short weeks and several of us are throwing her a virtual bridal shower.
Which means I get to impart to Renee on this blog two things: my congratulations and some love/wedding-related thoughts.
So I thought I would post about what NOT to have at your wedding, staying on the Princess Bride theme. Because really, that is the best example of how not to have your wedding, minus the castle.
Here we go:
  1. Make sure you marry someone you love (no brainer, although that prince title is attractive) and that that person isn’t trying to torture your true love to death (the forest is very scary)
  2. Have an officiant who can speak proper English (marwiage is what bwings us togewher today – hilarious)
  3. No dueling at the reception (although it can be very hot)
  4. Do not get married under the pressure that your true love will be storming the castle with his merry me to save you (that is so much pressure)
  5. Have an awesome dress (I’m sure this is already secured!)
  6. Ride off into the sunset with one helluva kiss

So Renee, I’m sorry I don’t have the best marriage-related advice or experience but I did want to put together something silly and sweet for you.
I’m so happy for you and Joe and I wish you all the best in the future. I cannot wait to see pictures of the wedding and hear all about it from Erin and Rachel.
Oh and keep an eye on the groomsmen’s grabby hands. Seriously. Note to them: Ask me before pinching my butt. I am a lady and buying me a Miller Lite from the bar is not a free pass for those hands. And just because I’m in a dress and you’re in a tux, that does not mean we’re automatically hooking up, even if that suit does make you look better in beer goggles. Kthanxbye!

22 July 2009

Food crack

By: Jessica B.
Tagged: Food

I love food. I can’t cook, but I sure love it. And I always make sure my pantry is stocked and of course, try to stock it with food that is healthy.

But there is some food that I cannot resist. Food that I swear is laced with crack because once I get near it, I cannot control myself.
It’s like “When Animals Attack.” I’ve talked about my love of candy but I wanted to take a moment and reflect on the wonderous food that I have trouble saying no to.
And yes, some of them are healthy (but not all of them!)
Some of these food crack vices may include some kind of popcorn and candy and yes, there is a fruit option.
So go over to my Vegas/BlogHer buddy Katelin’s site to check out my list and let me know what foods you can’t resist either.

21 July 2009

An ode to cupcakes

By: Jessica B.
Tagged: Chicago, Food

If it came down to cake or pie…..it would be a tough call but I’d probably go with cake. I mean, I love some sweet apple pie but I do really love cake a lot.

And because I can’t walk around eating a piece of cake on the street (it would look really nasty), I can eat cupcakes outdoors and in Chicago, cupcakes are queen.

I get spoiled by all the cupcake options in Chicago because Wisconsin doesn’t have a formal cupcake shop! I know, trust me, I looked and was shocked at that realization.

But, I have thoroughly sampled several cupcake options in Chicago and here are my feelings on them:

Must visit:

  • Sugar Bliss (Loop) – The best red velvet cupcake I’ve ever had. Period. Frosting sticks to your lips and the chocolate mint cupcake is also great. It’s like a Thin Mint, but in a cake form! Also, my parents LOVE this place.
  • Molly’s (Lincoln Park) – Another great place for a quick stop. With free glasses of water, swing chairs and make-your-own cupcake selections, it’s got something for everyone.
  • Southport Grocery (Lakeview) – Very affordable ($2/each) but few flavors to pick from. Doesn’t bother me though, I love everything I’ve had there.
  • Swirlz (Lincoln Park) – Humongous cupcakes with a ton of varieties to pick from. Also, very blogger-friendly. They supplied cupcakes for the BlogHer Chicago meet up and the owner was SO sweet to us when we visited last summer as a group. Also offers gluten-free cupcakes that are very tasty.

So close:

  • More (Loop) – The only place in Chicago I know with savory cupcake (like B.L.T.) but the last few I’ve bought here have been dry, and expensive. Two things I don’t like.
  • Sweet Mandy B’s (Lincoln Park) – This one is the “doll” of Chicago, very well known, and a group of us bloggers visited it last year. The cupcakes are good, but man that frosting is sweet. Like stomach ache-inducing.
  • Bittersweet (Lakeview) – Awesome atmosphere but it only serves the “cupcake of the day” flavor. So if you don’t like the selection, there’s no other cupcake options available. Fortunately, there are other sweets to pick from :)
  • Phoebe’s Cupcakes (Lakeview) – I was thrilled when a cupcake shop opened right near my house and the staff is so nice whenever I go in but the last few cupcakes I’ve had there have been dry and the frosting has tasted a little off. But I won’t write it off just yet.

So those are my thoughts on the cupcake shops in Chicago, as you can see, I’ve done my research. Oh and one cupcake company even delivers? That is dangerous.

Whenever I go to a new cupcake place, the two I always get are: red velvet and chocolate with vanilla frosting. Those are my favorite :)

What’s your favorite flavor?

Also, so you don’t think I’m just cupcake snob, I’m guest posting over at my friend Maris’ blog In Good Taste. My guest post includes a recipe and photos from my cupcake-making adventure.

Trust me, they’re really good!

20 July 2009

Date recap #4: Pick your movies wisely

By: Jessica B.
Wow. I had a lot of people ask me about my date so here is the official post/recap. Sorry to keep you guys waiting!

It kills me to say this but my date Saturday night with JohnBoy gets a B grade. Maybe it was an off night for us both and it had been a week since we saw each other and he just got back a day earlier from his trip, but something seemed….off.

Rather than have a big date production this time (sorry no picnics in the park,) we opted for a more laid back date: dinner and a movie.
And as per usual, I was insanely nervous before we went out, pacing and wondering, “WTF am I doing?”
Yes, I’m still a little insecure. But I’m the kind of person who obsesses and gets super nervous before a date and then when it starts, I’m totally fine. It’s all my neurosis about the build up. And because it was over a week since we really saw each other, the beginning of the date was a little awkward, getting comfortable with one another again.
So anyhow, back to the movie, which is honestly why I think the date vibe was a little…off. Because I’m a movie buff and have movie buff friends, I’ve seen the majority of the new releases so that left slim pickings behind for a date. So we settled on The Proposal and I felt pretty secure in that choice….until we arrived and found out it was sold out. Shit. So that left…..Ice Age or Bruno.
Please guess what the answer was……..still waiting…….oh come on you know the answer……Bruno.
Here’s what we were thinking: “Hey yeah that’ll be fine we both agree, we know what we’re getting into, hey it won’t be too awful.”
O-M-G. No it wasn’t awful, parts of it were actually really funny, but the sex and constant male anatomy on the screen definitely….killed the mood a little bit. I wanted him to hold my hand, but when two guys are ball gagged in bed on the screen, that doesn’t say, “aww look how romantic this moment is.” That’s more for when they’re wearing harnesses (KIDDING!)
So after a few post movie awkward pauses and some awkward laughter, it was dinner time, where I hoped alcohol would me loosen up. And it did. Wine always delivers for me.
We went to Bandera, which was awesome and as always, he was a perfect gentleman, telling me how nice I looked and holding doors, helping guide me through the crowd. But I still think the movie buzzkilled any romance for the date because there was no hand holding, arm around the shoulder or anything. I was a little disappointed, but maybe that’s a sign for me to be more forward.
And after paying a ridiculous amount in parking to drive me home (instead of me taking the bus home), the evening ended with a few hugs and kisses.
Now I’m bummed I won’t see him for over a week because of BlogHer and work stuff coming up, but he said when I’m done, he’ll take me out to celebrate.
That, I can’t wait for.
So I guess I learned a few things from this date: yes, I want to see him again and we’ve already made plans to see another, funnier movie together, and that while I definitely respect him for taking it slow with me, it’s time for me to take the lead on a few things.
Have you ever had these awkward moments on a date? How do you overcome them? And yes, we’re still e-mailing so everything is good. But I need some PDA action :)

19 July 2009

Weekend recap: Girl time and movies

By: Jessica B.

Happy Sunday everyone! Right now, Chicago is feels more like fall than July. Not only was I in jeans all weekend, but also the practice of carrying around a jacket is getting to be more of a tradition. Yes, a jacket during the day…in July. WTH?

Anyhow, let’s talk about the weekend.

I’m fortunate that I have good girlfriends in the city. I had a good group before I started blogging and since then, I’ve been able to meet and make more good friends here. I’m really fortunate.
So before the BlogHer insanity starts this week, I engaged in one of my favorite things: girl bonding time.
That’s right, lots of friend time that consisted of hanging out, catching up, gossiping and shopping. You know, the things we all love to do with our girlfriends.
On Saturday, Liz, Sarah and I went to Yolk in River North (new location) to have some brunch and catch up. Things are so crazy right now that I haven’t had time to sit and really chat with them about what’s new with everyone, how work is going, etc. All while indulging in some of Yolk’s lovely strawberry-orange juice. Seriously, I would drink that stuff by the gallon.
Then it was off to Nordstrom for its Anniversary Sale. Seriously, I love Nordstrom so much, it’s my happy place. And while basking in the joy of some of my favorite things on sale, I was also happy to not go above my budget. So I stocked up on MAC and Mario Badescu and treated to a pair of Kate Spade aviators (bad a**) and Diorshow mascara. I cannot wait to try it.
Then today, TC and I went to see 500 Days of Summer because I haven’t talked to her a lot lately either. Seriously summers are just too busy!
Yes, the anticipation for the movie was so strong I nearly lost my mind, especially all the positive stuff I heard about it this week. I will say this, overall, I did like it, but it was not at all what I expected. I was muttering the word “b*tch” a few times and one part actually broke my heart a little bit but it was definitely good. That said, I am currently obsessed with the soundtrack and my have to start dancing around to Hall & Oates one night. So classic.
So in the end, I got to spend some good time with some of my friends, which always helps keep me sane and in check. Trust me, the know how to put me back into my place. And fortunately, I get to hang out with more awesome bloggers/ladies this week at the conference!
Oh and I also went on a date Saturday night, which was…interesting. Promise I won’t keep you waiting too long, I’m working on that post now for tomorrow night!
How was everyone else’s weekend? Did you see any movies? Or what are your favorite things to do with your girlfriends?
Note: Wow there are a lot of passionate Harry Potter fans out there! Holy cow. Erin is in the process of recruiting people to force me to start reading the books. I look forward to watching her fulfill this quest :)