Comments on: Guest post: Friend trouble

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By: san

san — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 16:04:51 +0000

Is there ANY way to talk to both of them about how their feud makes you feel, how you don’t want to be in the middle, because you have nothing to do with their situation?

Maybe they can work out a way so that you’re not affected by their disliking of each other.

By: blaez

blaez — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 15:08:33 +0000

I’ve been in that situation. I had 2 friends Jack (who is a girl) and Suga (who is also a girl) and they both liked the same Boy. Who played both of them…Suga and I were roommates so I knew about Suga and Boy… however, on her nights off we didn’t know Jack was with Boy…When I found out about the 2 of them I was shocked angry and upset. Boy & Jack made promises to stop… Suga ended up pregnant with Boy. Boy started cheating with other girls… Suga and Boy went thier seperate ways…along with Jack & Boy…

That ended all of us being friends. Little by little I got Jack and Suga talking to me but they wouldn’t talk to each other.

I’m getting married and I love both of these girls so much and I wanted both of them to be in my wedding! If they were still good friends I was going to have them both be my Maid and Matron of Honor (Jack is married to a diff boy and Suga is single)… They both agreed to set aside thier differences for my big day but I couldn’t choose between the 2 of them so I picked a diff lady for my Honor.

So I guess maybe I’m telling you that you just have to give it time. If they were ment to be friends they will. But you can’t force it. They have to come together on thier own…And they have to realize that you can’t choose between the two because both are your friends.

By: Suz

Suz — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 13:49:45 +0000

I have been through a similar situation. For years we would complain about not being able to have them both involved with activities. We determined we had to just keep them seperated because they flat out refused to be around each other. The sad thing is of course now I am much closer to one than the other.

By: Paula

Paula — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 11:20:54 +0000

This is TOTALLY not fair on you Angela. They need to grow up and realise that if they can’t sort out their differences, they’re potentially going to lose even MORE friends as a result…

By: Lollygagger

Lollygagger — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 04:33:38 +0000

At the risk of sounding like an old lady: life is too short. Do what you can to please yourself and don’t let other friends make you feel bad for hanging out with others no matter what drama has happened in the past.

Friends should deal with their issues rather than drag others into them.

Not trying to preach! I just hate when people make others feel bad. Good luck!

By: jenniferalaine

jenniferalaine — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 03:10:35 +0000

I’m trying VERY hard to make sure my friends don’t end up in the middle of my “drama”. One of my friends, and one of our roommates, and I aren’t as close anymore and it’s annoying to have to live with her… Friend drama definitely sucks and I hope my friends don’t feel like they have to choose!

By: Lucy

Lucy — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 03:05:19 +0000

Really enjoy reading your blog, so I left you a little something over on my blog!

By: Carissajaded

Carissajaded — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 02:44:54 +0000

I wish that this post didn’t hit so close to home for me. My two best girlfriends are essentially enemies. I know the reasoning behind both of their feelings and I want nothing more than for them to just let it go. It makes everything hard.. birthdays, holidays… I always feel like I’m being pulled from both ends. I hope everything works out for you!